About
1:30 in the morning. Just got home from an evening of Family Guy, the Newsroom
(great show!) and filling out PhD applications and briefs. And the weird thing
is, it felt like any other night. Except it’s Christmas Eve. But with the
absence of two key factors because these last three Christmases haven’t really
felt like ‘Christmas’: weather and family.
I’ve spent
all my life having a white Christmas. Even if it wasn’t snow, it was damn near
close with slush or sleet. Some Decembers it being so worse that my car door
was frozen shut or you had to start the car an hour before leaving just to make
it bearable to drive in. And so with these last three seasons, celebrating the
holidays in 90-degree weather, shorts and a BBQ just doesn’t feel the same.
It’s just not Christmas. Christmas is about shovelling the snow out of the
driveway to make room for the relatives to park, going out and having snowball
fights and even showing off your new toys to your friends. That’s definitely
one thing I look forward to upon returning home, a white Christmas.
The other
is family. To me, Christmas isn’t about religion but instead coming together of
family and in some cases even friends to celebrate the love, camaraderie and
affection of close ones. Some of my friends have the ease of this love as
families live just down the street or interstate. And others even have the
luxury to travel home to Canada, the US and Germany to be with family on
Christmas. I don’t have that luxury.
So with
this, I say cherish every moment that you get to spend with your family, no
matter how annoying they may be. Because at the end of the day, they will
always be there for you. Because they will be waiting for you at the terminal
with open arms. Because somewhere in the world are homeless citizens just
trying to eat on a Tuesday, soldiers in war just trying to survive another day
or myself typing this at two in the morning to take a break from PhD research
and reflect off the good times this year has given me.
And with that, from myself down here in Australia, I say
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family.
Now I’m going to go watch Love Actually.
-H